Sep 28, 2016 | Focolare Worldwide
Manna from Heaven “I’m an Iraqi veterinarian. My work was impacted by the current historic and dramatic situation my country is going through: now, the clients are few and far between. As I tried to find a way to push on, I was promised a job with a high salary in a city far from my own. It would be a favourable solution for my family, but would have placed me far from everyone else. My parents were insisting that I accept what seemed like manna from heaven. I spoke at length with my wife and it seemed to us that it wouldn’t be opportune for us, to leave at that moment, both because of our children and because several friends whose families were in need of our support, at least our moral support. Therefore we let go of the idea, blindly entrusting ourselves to God’s love. Incredibly, already from the day after we made this difficult decision my work picked up. I’m now earning four times more than what I was before.” (Y.K. Iraq) The Unexpected “We had been married for a short time when we discovered that we were expecting our first child. Something quite unexpected was also added to that: a small lump in the breast. Exams revealed a tumour. For me and my husband, who is a doctor, it was a hard blow, the first serious one in our marriage. Just three days after talking with a specialist I underwent surgery. He and his colleagues concluded that keeping the child would only aggravate the illness: we needed to proceed with an abortion immediately, so that I could begin chemotherapy. Finally, we decided on caesarean birth in the seventh month of pregnancy, when the child would be perfectly able to survive. Only afterwards would I begin chemotherapy and radiotherapy. Eight years have gone by since then. Now, we’re expecting our third child.” (M.D. France) More Joy in Giving “I searched for happiness in the wrong way: bad company, discos, cigarettes and alcohol. My boyfriend both peddled and took drugs. I was rebellious and morose both in school and at home, I dressed strangely, always in black with clothing full of studs and spikes. And I was totally indifferent to God. When I realized I had hit rock bottom, by sheer force of will I left that boy and abandoned the friendships. But how could I resolve the sorrow and sense of emptiness that I was feeling? When I began the new schoolyear my new Religion teacher inspired trust in me. Through my conversations with him I received the gift of faith. The encounter with God-Mercy changed me totally and satisfied my longing for love. I began to pray and seek God, getting involved in volunteering, experiencing that ‘there is more joy in giving than in receiving.’ I live a normal life: I go to school and do all the things a girl of my age does, with the only difference that now I have God in my heart.” (A.R. Italy)
Sep 26, 2016 | Focolare Worldwide, Senza categoria
John: “At the beginning of the school year, our son came home after his first day in year 11 and said to my wife that he was not returning to school – he said that he couldn’t stand people! He disappeared silently into his room for over a year, coming out only when he thought we were asleep. He withdrew from me entirely and only talked to his mother sporadically. I felt completely abandoned and lost, but Claire’s love managed to help me accept the rejection. What helped me was the phrase of the Gospel: ‘As I have loved you, so you must love one another’ (Jn 13:34). One night he made a desperate decision to commit suicide. As we called for an ambulance, he climbed out a window and ran away. The next hours were a blur: the ambulance arrived but he was gone; police support came too. He eventually came back and he was rushed to hospital for treatment. A week in hospital intensive care for someone stricken with panic and terror of people and spaces is a pretty scary thing. Night after night, and day after day, we slept in shifts so one of us would be there whenever he woke up. That ‘night shift’ was the only concrete love I could offer him; I could at least be a presence if needed – something I know that he later understood. When he came home, we thought that we could keep up that 24 hour suicide watch, but pretty soon had to accept that this was humanly impossible. We prayed together in a new way seeking God’s will. Together we offered and entrusted to God our son – His son – accepting completely that we could not prevent him trying to commit suicide again. I well remember the fear, pain, emptiness, anguish and hopelessness of this time, and then, in my acceptance of this terrible role, the feeling of real union with God and with Claire. In the year that followed, we managed to get him to reluctantly agree to enter a day therapy program. We hung in with our background support role and I think that God did the rest from the mundane of our ever-extending health insurance cover, to the miraculous – of an incredible group of fractured kids who supported and lived for each other.” Claire: “One of the girls in the group, with her multiple challenges, not the least of which was drug addiction, became part of our family life, and, as time went on, she and our son grew closer together. She hung in with him and helped draw him through his anxious times. And he stood by her rugged attempts at drug withdrawal. But it wasn’t easy.” John: “Their relationship suffered a setback due to our son’s stand on drugs, his personal abhorrence of them. But slowly, over the period after release from her months of involuntary hospitalisation, they tried again and worked at rebuilding their relationship on a firmer ‘no drugs’ foundation. Eventually they decided to marry.” Claire: “But, as everyone knows, wedding preparation is a pretty stressful experience, and our soon-to-be daughter-in-law was still working in an environment where drug taking was a common way to cope with life. So the inevitable happened. Our son rang me a month before the wedding and said bleakly, ‘Mum, she’s on ice again*. What should I do?’ My heart fell through the floor, and my brain went blank. Then I said, ‘I can’t tell you what to do – only the two of you have the grace for that. But I can tell you that, if you look into your heart and you see that you have loved wisely to the very end, then that tells you that it’s time for your part to finish. But if you look into your heart and you see that there is even the smallest bit more of loving wisely that you can give, then you keep trying.’ There was a long, long pause. Then a big, sad sigh. And he said, ‘I guess I can love a bit more’. Eventually they found a place that allowed her to have an extended live-in rehabilitation program with its associated outpatient support systems. It’s now 14 hard months down the track, and she is still clean – a tribute to her continuing efforts in working with her counsellors, fuelled by her incredible love for her husband – our son – in his ‘no drugs’ stand, as well as to his extraordinary love for her through all their struggles. We’re so proud of both of them. It has been a long road for all of us. And I guess one that we’ll all travel or the rest of our lives. But what I have seen shining through all the tears is that God’s love for John and me gave us the wisdom and strength to love our son in the way he needed to the end, and that maybe our love showed our son the way to love his wife in just the way that was right for her.”
Experience shared at Health Symposium “Darkness to Light – Spirituality of Unity in Chronic Disease and Disability” Australia, July 2016
*Crystal methamphetamine
Sep 22, 2016 | Focolare Worldwide, Senza categoria
It’s been six years since the beginning of the war in your country. What do you think have been the worst effects on society? Six years of war have shaken the very bulwark of Syrian society: the family, the basic cell that has absorbed the blows and the disgrace of this unending violence. The family was the safeguard of the country and of the Church up until 2014. But the insecurity, intolerance, violence and chaotic destruction have now completely uprooted more than two million families. Without houses and scattered all over the world, how could they have gone on under the weight of such a heavy Calvary? It was common at the beginning of the war – March 15, 2011 – to see the family gathered around a mother. The men go to war and often die. The saying now is: ‘An orphan without a father is not an orphan’. The family is left gathered around its mother who ensures the unity and the survival of the hearth. In the midst of this long and burdensome suffering these heroic mothers live in poverty and in tears. They have honoured their calling, living in tents and dying drowned. Is there any greater suffering? The destruction of the basic cell of society, and the youth? Can we count on them to look towards the future? The general mobilization that was decreed in October 2015 invited all men under the age of 45 to enter military service. It was a decision that also distressed other family members who couldn’t leave and had to stay where they were, waiting for a conclusion to this endless war. This age group that vanished had once comprised the backbone of economic activity that was still being carried out. Some reached the barracks and others chose to flee on the trail of illegal immigrants that is often irreversible. This destabilized the job market and the modest family life that found itself even more deprived of resources. What future is there for a community without young people? How has the war affected the Church? These things have weakened the Church. Families often decide to get up and go to their son who has left the country. Hence, you have the exodus of families resulting in the dizzying drop in the number of the faithful in parishes. There is the demographic imbalance: in the absence of young men, our young women who find themselves alone often marry Muslim polygamists. With fewer marriages, there are fewer baptisms. For the first time the Church finds itself facing another crucial problem as well: one in three priests in Damascus have decided to move to another more peaceful country. What can be done to keep priests in Damascus? What will come of the Church without priests? What do you think is the challenge and the hope of the Christians living in Syria today? The dead cities in the north of Syria are an unsettling photograph of what we could become. How are we to avoid becoming the guardians of brick and stone? It remains to the Christians of the East to reconsider their calling and to live along the lines of the small primitive Church that lived without protection or guarantee. Will we be capable of responding to this apostolic challenge? The Gospel encourages: ‘Fear not, little flock” (Lk 12:32).
Sep 20, 2016 | Focolare Worldwide
“The World Forum for Peace” will be held in Brazil, in the city of Florianópolis, during 22-25 September.
The opening ceremony of the 10th World Peace Forum and 2nd Youth World Peace Forum will be transmitted life via streaming on Thursday, 22 September, from 6 pm – 8.30pm (Brazil time)
Live transmission: http://live.flars.net/worldpeaceforum2016 On Friday, 23 September, at 11.15 am (Brazil time), there will be a Youth Video Conference. To register for the live webinar: worldpeaceyouth.org/registration Official Website for World Peace Forum 2016
Sep 20, 2016 | Focolare Worldwide
A delegation of 40 people from Cameroon are on their way to Rome. Among them are 9 traditional leaders (Fon), the native Kings of the Bangwa people of Lebialem, South-West Cameroon (Fon-Fontem, Fon-Nwametaw, Fon-Nwangong, Fon- Esoh Attah, Fon-Akum, Fon-Lewoh, Fon-Nkar, Fon-Bamenda and Fon-Douala),who are accompanied by Mafuas (Queens), two Mayors and other distinguished persons. They travel to Italy to celebrate the Jubilee of Mercy with Pope Francis and to thank God for the 50 years that has passed since the Bangwa people and the Focolare Movement met for the first time in Fontem. Their “pilgrimage” starts at the Vatican. They look foward to meet Pope Francis during the General Audience on Wednesday, September 21, when the Fon-Kings will greet the Pope on behalf of the delegation and their peoples, offer gifts typical of their culture and thank him for all that the Church has done for them. During their stay in Italy, they will be guests of the Focolare Movement and they will visit places where Chiara Lubich was born, lived and is buried: Trent, Loppiano (Florence) and Rocca di Papa (Rome). In fact, it was Chiara and the Focolare Movement, who answered the plea of Bangwa people, that came through Msgr Peters, bishop of Buea in the early 60’s, when the endemic sleeping sickness and other tropical diseases provoked a 90% rate of infantile mortality, threatening the extinction of the whole population. Today, these diseases have almost disappeared and the hospital, with its outpatient clinics, laboratory, operating theatre, male and female internal medicine department, surgery, maternity and pediatrics departments and the new department for infectious diseases, excels in the healthcare for the whole region. In the early70’s, a power plant, a carpentry shop, a nursery school and college were also built. The college,which takes more than 500 students, is one of the most popular pre-university insitutions in Cameroon. These 50 years built on facts and involving the whole region of Lebialem, led tens of thousands of people to accept the Christian message, in their personal life and in the life of society. They were supported by the work of the Mill Hill missionaries, the White Fathers and religious men and women of other congregations, who contributed towards the setting up of parishes, of the recent diocese of Manfi, of other schools and of public and administrative State structures. The baggage of the delegation led by the nine Fons contains this story of their people, a story which makes them feel the need to thank God and “Mafua Ndem Chiara Lubich” (queen sent by God), as the Bangwa people call her.
Press Conference with the Bangwa Delegation on Wednesday, September 21 at 12.30 (after the audience with Pope Francis)at J.H. Newman Hall, Urban University.
See also: http://focolare-fontem.org/
Video: General Hospital, Fontem
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Sep 14, 2016 | Focolare Worldwide
“When I was invited to visit the Focolare communities in Gabon, I searched for it on Google Earth to find out where on the African continent it was located. It’s actually a small country that is hardly ever talked about. Yet, perhaps few places on earth are so beautiful, rich in natural resources (oil, precious wood, extinct species that are still in existence, 800 km of coastland, the ocean of your dreams. . . .). That’s without saying anything about the people: more than 2 million citizens from 40 ethnic groups, Christians, Animists and Muslims, all living together in peace and – I have to stay it! – an extraordinary ability to welcome and include everyone, as I was able to experience for myself. Currently, Gabon is in a complicated political impasse, following the elections of August 27th and an announcement of victory for one of the presidential candidates. There has been a strong call for transparency both from within and outside the country, from the international community. There is also a strong call to reveal the final election results in each of the regions – as prescribed by the Gabonaise Constitution. The majority of the population are not convinced by the results that have actually been reported, and people have poured into squares in the capital city of Librevelle and in the industrial city Port-Gentil. The demonstrations were contained and repressed with an uncertain number of deaths and many arrests. Non-official means of communication and social networks have been blocked, making it difficult for me to receive news from my friends with whom I spent unforgettable days living the Gospel. It was they who managed to contact me, reporting that all are well and how they’re living through the situation. “Thanks for holding us in your heart!” they write from Libreville. “Unfortunately it’s true that the country is going through violence following the elections. Tensions are high and we’ve been told to stock up on water and basic necessities, and to stay inside our homes. Supermarkets have been ransacked. The communications media is in the hands of the government, and internet is available for only short periods of time between 8:00 and 14:00. Messaging, Facebook and Whatsapp are all blocked. There is a strong and visible military presence on the roads. Total confusion since the election results were announced in this free and democratic land. We’re still waiting for an announcement from the Constitutional Court, with the possibility of even more disorder. People are fearful for the near future of Gabon.” I also received news from Port-Gentil: “We’re well, thanks be to God. Internet access has been limited and complicated since August 31st. We hope it will be active again soon, since it’s such an important communication tool. Last week we were closed inside our houses, unable to go out because of the total chaos on the streets of Port-Gentil and many other places in the country. Moments like these remind of the importance of prayer.” Before saying goodbye to each other we had made a pact, committing ourselves to be peacebuilders, builders of unity and dialogue with everyone in our own work and family environment. Now is more than ever the moment to do it with the support of many other people around the world who live and work for a more united world.” Before saying goodbye to each other we had made a pact, committing ourselves to be peacebuilders, builders of unity and dialogue with everyone in our own work and family environment. Now is more than ever the moment to do it. We were further encouraged by what Pope Francis said yesterday, September 11th to those who were gathered with him in Saint Peter’s Square: “I entrust to the Lord the victims of the clashes and their families. I join the Bishops of that dear African country to invite the parties to reject all violence and to always aim for the common good. I encourage everyone, particularly Catholics, to be builders of peace within the law, in dialogue and fraternity.”
