Keep awake: is an invitation to keep our eyes open, to recognize the signs of God’s presence in history, in everyday life and to help others, who live in the dark, find the path of life. Another child “Are you prepared to have more children when you already have three?” asked a friend of mine. I answered that each child is a unique gift and that the experience of motherhood cannot be compared to any other, because the joy of a new birth is beneficial for the whole family. I also spoke about the economic aspect that mysteriously seems to emphasize that every child is wanted by Heaven. My friend, then, shared with me that she was expecting her second child, and together with her husband she was planning to have an abortion. A new creature would compromise the family’s economic situation, she remarked. When we came to part, she stated: “I feel ready for a new motherhood”. (PA. – Italy) Give trust When a cousin of mine came over to visit us, small objects disappeared from our house and then reappeared in his parents’ house. Mum shared this very gently with my cousin’s parents, but they were so hurt that our families ties were broken. As Christians, we wanted to do our best to change this unhappy situation, and the opportunity cropped up when my cousin, now a teenager, was expelled from school because he was caught stealing from his companions. My father spoke to the parents and suggested the name of a specialist who could help my cousin. Amidst great pain and shame, they had to admit that their son was a kleptomaniac. My mother came up with idea to spend our holidays together with them, while she helped us children to be generous and show full trust in our cousin. My cousin was very happy. The whole family benefitted from psychotherapeutic assistence and also medicines. One day, when my aunt was talking about her family, she confided: “Our pride made us feel superior.We were sick of arrogance “. (J.G. – Spain) Justice and understanding I am a magistrate in a locality scourged by the Mafia presence. It happened that while I was questioning for very long hours a prisoner burdened with a lot of crime, I was asked if I would like to have something to eat. I agreed, as long as the prisoner would have something to eat too. Shocked with this simple gesture of mine, the prisoner almost couldn’t believe it. But suddenly I was gripped with the fear of finding myself face to face with the offender during breaktime and I felt like going away. At the same moment another thought flashed to my mind: “If I am here to love this neighbour of mine, I have nothing to fear”. I continued the interrogation with the same attitude towards him: I tried to make him understand the gravity of his deeds, but without judging him and speaking very calmly to him. Sometime later he wrote to me from prison. Did he write to ask for a less severe judicial sentence? No, he wrote at length to share all his miseries and ask for understanding. It was strange that he wrote it to me when I had issued a a sentence against him. Evidently, something must have struck him. (Elena – Italy)

by Stefania Tanesini (taken from Il Vangelo del Giorno, Città Nuova, year V, n.6,November-December 2019)